I know that everyone has to have that person that they trust so they can confide every little detail about their relationship and just about their life in general, but I damnit if people can be over dramatic. I have this friend who is in an "on again, off again" relationship. She gets really upset if she doesn't talk to him for a few days. Even if she can't get in touch with him within a day, she calls me and bitches about the fact that she can't get intouch. Goddamnmit, he could be taking a shit or something, let him the fuck alone for one goddamn second. It would be different if they had just started the relationship, but damn, they have been together for almost a year. Almost a fucking year!!!!
After a year, you have to have some level of trust. She told me tonight that she "trusted him more than any other boyfriend she's had" and she "doesn't know what she would do if she lost him". She says that "her life would be over if the relationship ended."
I know that when long-term relationships end, it can be horrific, you when your young, you have to get over it. If she was in her late to mid 40"s, or past that, I would agree. But she's only 20. It's not the end. She could find someone else and she mets guys all the time and even had another relationship during the seperation of this one i'm talking about.
When I talked to her tonight, she was upset cause she talked to the "on again, off again" boyfriend, and he was upset that he hasn't got to spend much time with her. Then he said to her that, "Us being unhappy because we don't spend that much time together is not how a relationship should be. I don't like not spending time with you cause I know it makes you upset. And I don't want to hurt you cause I Love you." She thinks, because he said that, that he might end the relationship again because of them not being happy and then feeling obligated to spend time together. It's to much shit to think about.
I know that they've been together for a while, but it's not the end of the world if the relationship ends. If i try to tell her this, she doesn't fucking listen to me which really pissess me off. I know that I'm going to get a phone call tomorrow or the next day about the conversation that they will have, and I'm pretty sure that things will be ok. That's how it always is, she overreacts, they talk, shit turns out fine, which again pissess me off cause it wasn't a big deal to begin with, I tell her that, but she doen't listen to me.
Anyway, I'm just frustrated cause I kinda don't care about this whole situation, but it's always me that has to hear about it. I thought about taking the high road a tell her that I don't want ot hear about the problems, but I try to but it in a way which isn't rude. I don't know, I think I should go to bed before I stay up all night thinking about this shit and making myself an old man before I turn 25. (I'm 24).
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